Adjusting to the Shock of an SCI
It can seem like an out of body experience waking up with a SCI. Many people know they have a spinal cord injury the moment it happens - they instantly can't feel their legs or arms or move them. It happens just like that when the trauma occurs.
It's terrifying and depressing, but even more than that, it's shocking to the mind.
To be perfectly healthy and the next moment, not able to move or feel and be told you'll be in a wheelchair the rest of your life can take the mind into an out-of-body place; and it can take a long time for the mind to adjust.
Most injured people do go through this "shock" period, and it's one of the hardest things you'll go through after an injury. Your sense of identity is stripped away and you're somehow supposed to rebuild it. How can you manage this? Your first step is through self-acceptance.
This mean you are are still the same person you were before. The injury cannot change that. Not even the biggest wheelchair in the world can strip away your personality. Some people may think it will, but don't listen. You're just in a different body.
Many people say it takes around two years to finally get used to being in a wheelchair; to no longer wake up and have that "shocked" feeling overwhelm you whenever you wake up, amazed you can no longer walk and have a spinal cord injury. This feeling though may never go away.
Watch the video blow from Blake Perkins, a paraplegic and SPINALpedia Video Maker, sharing his awesome tips on overcoming the shock of a spinal cord injury.