Tag Archives: wheelchair dancing

Getting hitched (on wheels) – A wheelchair wedding

Wheelchair-users get married everyday (despite most able-bodied people being shocked). No, we are not damaged goods; we are some of the most precious cargo around. What’s important is the love that’s shared between two people, not the car you drive.

These two wheelchair wedding videos – one giving advice on planning a wedding if you use a wheelchair, the other showing the coolest first dance I’ve ever seen a wheelchair-user do – prove just how awesome our weddings can still be. And what I love about these videos is that they’re not about a bride or groom walking down the aisle, the media‘s favorite subject of late (we get it already; people feel cooler when they walk!).

The first video comes from GetMarried.com, a mainstream wedding site, and they’ve created a video for wheelchair-users titled, “Disabled Weddings: Tips & Advice.” It covers nearly every aspect of planning a wheelchair wedding from the wc-perspective. How cool is that? I’ve never seen a thorough video before on this rarely-covered subject. Love it!

And it goes over every important aspect of the big day, from making sure the ceremony and reception locations are actually accessible (never take anyone for their word when they say something is “accessible” over the phone), creating a ceremony where both the bride and groom are at eye-level, to how-to choose a wedding dress (avoid beading under the butt!). The video interviews a beautiful paraplegic (and very knowledgeable) 40-something Asian bride.

The second video is titled, “A Perfect Wedding Dance – Bride in a Wheelchair,” and it shows the coolest first dance I never seen a wheelchair-user do. The bride Angie is a paraplegic and she hired a choreography company (that specializes in first dances) to create the first dance for herself and able-bodied groom. From start to finish, the routine is flawless.  It’s an up-tempo song (hip-hop) and she even throws a cute kick in there at the end. You gotta watch it.

Getting married and use a wheelchair? Don’t worry about it! These videos prove that the wheelchair is nothing but an accessory (that you can totally make work).

Have you hgd a wheelchair wedding?  What tips do you have? What was your first dance like?

Watch the Videos!

Disabled Weddings: Tips & Advice

A Perfect Wedding Dance – Bride in a Wheelchair – Angie & Joe – Las Vegas

SCI Superstar of the Week: Auti Angel

Armed with washboard abs, chrome wheels, fly hip-hop moves and more sass than a dozen Punky Brewsters, Auti Angel is possibly the coolest paraplegic in the universe.

It was in 1992 when Auti confronted the reality of no longer being able to walk, let alone dance – the true love of her life. She grew up in the self-described “hood” of Torrance, California where she learned to dance, and went to NYC at age 18 to dance for LL Cool J. But when she was 22, everything changed when a car cut her off while she was behind the wheel.

Why she’s fearless

After waking up a T12 paraplegic and going through a few rough years after her injury (we’ve all been there. I know I have), Auti found the confidence to re-train herself, and modify the dance moves she could still do; even finding new moves that took advantage of her wheelchair.

After getting her dance moves figured out (which is so not easy when you can’t stand), Auti competed in the World Championship of Performing Arts in 2002 (an invitation-only yearly competition for actors, dancers and singers), where she won Gold for Dancing. She’s been known as the “world’s first wheelchair hip-hop dancer” since, and for good reason. If you have not seen her dance before, this video is a must see. Auti has no fear and will rock her chair, hop out of it….anything for effect and to show the world that you really can dance from a wheelchair.

After winning at the World Championship of Performing Arts, Auti has been all over the wheelchair dance scene. She made a few music videos, including the video ‘Move Yo Body,’ she founded the wheelchair hip-hop dance group Colours’n Motion Dancers and even danced/performed with Ludacris at the 2003 Vibe Awards. She’s so incredibly cool that her moves even caught the attention of Hollywood, where he was cast in Musical Chairs (recently premiered), that shows the world of wheelchair ballroom dancing (I gotta see this!).

What’s next?

There’s even bigger news on Auti’s horizon. She, along with four other inspiring women with paralysis, will be on the highly anticipated reality series premiering next week, Push Girls (Sundance Channel). This show has been on my radar for awhile and from the sneak peak of Episode One, it is definitely going to change a lot of perceptions, and fingers-crossed – may be the sleeper hit of the summer (!)

Have you created any amazing dance moves in your wheelchair? Post a video on SPINALpedia and tell us about it! How as Auti Angel inspired you? 

Watch the videos!

Auti and Chelsie (who’s new to wheelchair-dancing) practice a routine and discover a cool new dance move!

Auti teaching a dance class at the Abilities Expo in L.A.

Watch a 3 minute preview of Push Girls featuring Auti