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As a Quadriplegic’s Daughter

SPINALpedia co-founder Britt and her dad before his car accident in 1998.

SPINALpedia co-founder Britt and her dad before his car accident in 1998.

My only concern when my dad was first injured was whether or not he would live. I was told pretty early that he had broken his neck, but I had no idea what that really meant. I had no idea what the word ‘ quadriplegic ‘ entailed. In my 12 year old mind, my interpretation was that one day I would help my dad walk again. I envisioned him taking slow, unsteady steps as he supported himself on parallel bars. I’m pretty sure I had seen something like that on TV once, but once I learned what paralysis really meant that image was shattered.

Never walk again. The words took a while to sink in, but my pre-teen mind was already extrapolating. How are we going to play? What about the stairs in our house? How would we dance? He and I both love to dance. During those days I often thought back to us swing dancing at his wedding, him swinging me up until my feet kicked in the air. As fear started to take hold, I thought even further. If my dad couldn’t walk, how would he ever walk me down the aisle? Like so many little girls, I often envisioned that special occasion. Needless to say, I became more aware of the adaptations I was going to have to make as his daughter, the alterations in the routine and activities that directly affected my life, and my fear of the unknown.

Having lost my only brother in the accident, I was left to figure a lot of it out on my own, but I did recognize how much my dad and step-mom benefited from the mentoring of others in the hospital. Despite the fact that there were no immediate mentors available for me, the 5th floor became almost a second home. I found comfort in being around others who understood what we were going through. Despite the challenges, life rolled on and I understood better the reality of my new life. I took responsibility for cleaning the screws bolted into my dad’s skull to stabilize his neck.  I learned how to use a hoyer lift to help him get into bed. I even took shifts waking up at 2am to help turn him at night to avoid pressure sores. Transfers, cervical vertebrae, catheters and spasms became a part of my normal vocabulary. The things that had seemed scary at first became more normal. As my dad transitioned home, we discovered new activities we could share and adapted the old ones we used to enjoy. Family soccer games and “roll and strolls” through the neighborhood are some of our pastimes. I also know now that my dad will roll me down the aisle, and we will certainly dance at my wedding.

SPINALpedia co-founder Britt and her dad, a C6-7 quadriplegic, photographed in 2010. Britt's dad was paralyzed in a car accident in 1998.

SPINALpedia co-founder Britt and her dad, a C6-7 quadriplegic, in 2010.

What my family overcame and embraced came in a large part from those we met in similar situations who helped give us hope. However, I quickly came to realize how many people are left without that feeling of connection, of belonging. Something needed to exist to bring the entire community together. This dream became SPINALpedia.

SPINALpedia is not just for those injured—they are not the only ones who endure an absolutely life-altering change. We carry an understanding, a connection to the disability world. We are a bridge between the able-bodied and disabled, understanding both sides of the coin, and standing in a perfect position to help bridge the gap and paint a more inclusive picture of our community. It’s imperative that those of us who have adapted our lives, who have found these connections, are available for others to also find empathy and compassion, guidance and strength to give all of us the ability to live life to the fullest.

 

Paralyzed fingers and the magic of tenodesis

“What’s wrong with my hands?” were the words that my dad first thought to himself as he shook his wrists and watched his fingers wiggle unresponsively as he came to consciousness after his accident. He had no idea that he had broken his neck, and that he would never have control of his fingers again.
In rehabilitation, he learned that he had to learn to use his hands in new way. “Just use tenodesis!”, his therapists assured him. “Teno-what!?” Therapists have a tendency of dropping fancy terms that mask generally simple concepts. Tenodesis became a saving grace for my dad, a simple movement that allows him to do anything from holding a glass to picking up a pen.
Being a C6-C7 quadriplegic, my dad still has use of his wrists, which allows him to use tenodesis. By relaxing his wrist, his fingers naturally extend and open.  The opposite movement of flexing the wrist up makes the fingers close, creating just the right movement to be able to “grasp” objects without consciously moving your fingers. Familiarity with tenodesis for quadriplegics with wrist movement can literally be the difference between independence and needing an aide. Check out this video on SPINALpedia of Beth, another high-level quadriplegic, who uses tenodesis to pick up a cup: http://www.spinalpedia.com/videodetails.php?vid=102117
Have you ever used tenodesis or know someone who does? Make a video and share it on SPINALpedia.com!